A friend was displaying the message that said all our destination is same i.e death and why do we fight/compete so much to reach this destination. Life itself has to be journey if death is the destination... i know the destination is not fun, so the journey has to be ! Its true in many cases , the effort put forth to reach a destination makes it sweater ( its the pursuit of happiness ) we all struggle through child hood to become teens , its again a struggle to reach youth and then midlife, but we all derive pleasure in thoughts of our childhood , teenage and youth ( i haven't gone past my youth so i can't talk past it ). What if as a child you knew for sure what would happen in your teens, most people i have met say that childhood was the best time, so what is the driver for the child !! thought provoking. The brief of all these thoughts is don't put too much thought into the destination love the journey and live happily.