Things I love in life are Dad, Mom, Wife , Sister , Kids. This is a moving equation.
I wonder how my relation with my kids will evolve over time. Time changes everything in life. I have to say time moves lives in mysterious ways that humans can’t understand.
I always wanted a son, It was a surprise to have Pranathi first, I love Pranathi more than anyone. I have seen her horoscope , she has shani in her 2nd house . This means she will be average in communication , she will only have moderate amounts of money (never more ), average looks. I am guilty of trying to control Pranathi’s future (as I was allowed to decide time of birth ). Dressing to this topic , time of birth …. someone asked me I don’t know why parents chose the time of birth based on Nakshara and Rashi ! I have tied to answer this in my mind ( I could not respond instantaneously with a logical answer ) Rich parents give their kids money, farmers give their kids land, Doctors give their kids their practice, Astrologers give their kids a reasonably good horoscope. This is my logical explanation.
Pranathi : My lovely daughter, given the astronomical combination at that time of birth , we did the best we could. Pranathi is developing into a tall, dusky , emotionally challenged girl. I want to first state what I want her to be. I want her to be independent thinking girl who can influence or be in power to help humanity. Her potential ( based on what I have observed till now ) is to learn new things well, be focused on things, have a calm demeanor, What she might turn out to be based on her horoscope is someone who listens to her husband , who gains a good government position , who is of average financial stature , who might be away from family. What i don’t want Pranathi to be is insensitive , slow and disconnected from normal human conduct.
Arjun : My dearest son , he is the only son of G N Lashmigowda ( my grand father ) . This kid is the only male kid in the line of my ancestors ( ours being a male driven socity ). He has all characteristics of my grand dad. He is fair , sweet talking , like able , super smart kid. I want Arjun to be a great human being , caring for this world and humanity. What Arjun might turn out to be based on his horoscope is someone who enjoys all the pleasures of life, who is intelligent , smart working. What I dont want him to be is try to use smartness for wrong things, hurt people and spoil his life on account of women.
Saanvi : My Niece , having your own kids changes the relationship drastically. However we still love Saanvi to the best of our abilities . It is difficult to love anyone more than your kids, Saanvi is a spontaneous girl with high zest of life, extremely curious , intelligent and energetic, I want Saanvi to be a athlete ( atleast at national level , she is the daughter of two good athealets Arun and Harshita ) caring for the world and humanity ( I see glimpses of my kind of thinking in Saanvi ). What Saanvi might turn out to be according to horoscope is a athlete, smart , hard working , mother loving, lucky girl. What i don’t want Saanvi to be is stubborn , fickle minded.
New Baby : I am soo happy to have a nephew ! This balances our family in all possible ways. He is too young to talk about. But from his horoscope I see a strong individual with energy , smooth talking , rich and lucky kid. Lets see how he turns out to be.
Above all I want all 4 to be united , watch out of each other. Never grow apart ( like me , Harshita , Amith and Adarsh ). Support each other through tough times and share each other happiness. As parents we can only guide them so much. I am hoping the bonds they develop among themselves will help them navigate unknown turns in life.
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